How Is It That Relationships Break?

There is no perfect relationship. One day it is great, next thing you know it, something got screwed and you are all to blame for it. But is there a way it can be fixed? Maybe.  And, yes. But only if those involved are willing to make it work, reconcile and settle their differences. Otherwise, forget it.

I know people who tried to salvage their relationships by giving in to the more controlling party, thinking it will somehow work, the issue in consideration is set aside. Silence is the game here that people play. They neglect the obvious for fear of rejection. Furthermore, this reaction is earmarked with the hope of reaching the trail of peace. But this will work only temporarily as the cycle could move on and on for many years.

We sometimes hear people talk. Ask questions,

"How come evil people live longer than the kinder ones?"

"How come these creatures never get sick? 

Because their negative energy is so strong that the magnitude could strike a cancer on a person's body. So don't let them take control of your body, your mind. And your soul. Have some respect.

Love yourself. Protect yourself.


There is a time to speak up, so go-leave, and live a new chapter of your existence elsewhere because somewhere there is a better chance for you to be happy.

We must remember that relationships that thrive with love are driven on two way streets. One can’t be hyper while the other, catatonic. Polarities break when one pushes so hard and then the other pulls away.Heard of balance? In French, it is called

équilibre.

My advice? Stay with a friend or with a family member you can trust. Also, the best way to deal with tragedy is to face it, fight it, reach it and then turn it around as a reminder of your strength to live again.

-Pizzicatto 
San Francisco